yeah, people can be horrible @ENKELI I shelled out over $20k over 4 years on person whose house I was living at. I had to override all my instincts not to run away , but got it deeper and deeper. I was just an ATM to them most of the time. Junkies can be very persuasive. we lost touch ; she went to expensive rehab interstate on parents money. got back in touch briefly. it didnt work. Even I had moved on by then. then heard she died about a year later.
my sister is damaged and think has some sort of odd secret life that churns through friends, has her blamed for brother in laws married break up, had said to me her best friend wanting to have 2 couple sex etc.life in the 'burbs w heaps of cash and no morales. in her defence she was abused as a child, but something happened and she burned me the last14years , funerals aside, she will talk for few weeks then stops, no rels left to die now, so guess never see her again
