07-12-2025 02:28 PM - edited 07-12-2025 02:32 PM
07-12-2025 02:28 PM - edited 07-12-2025 02:32 PM
Edit: seeking validation, and just wanting to have a laugh.
Well, in another ridiculous life update... I was told my abusive ex is now officially dating the other woman. After hiding me for 2 years. Someone he regularly insulted and accused of being a homewrecker (that is true, but anyway). Someone that attempted to take her life over him. She befriended and supported me through the break up, using me at the lowest point of my life, under the guise of "helping me heal".
Only to taunt me out of no where, with photos of them kissing, and date him within 2 months of me leaving. Okay. These people are in their 30's by the way, you would think they're 15. I never wanted to be involved with this woman, but was obviously desperate for support from someone that "understood". Lesson learned.
This woman acted like she hated him, as you would, with how he treated us and every other woman he's manipulated. Yet they want to rub it in my face that they're publicly together? It's embarrassing and hard to comprehend, but it's good to know they are each other's karma. Now she's isolating him and they will cheat on each other. Hope they have a grand old time! I've removed anyone who was involved so I can move on already.
07-12-2025 06:09 PM
07-12-2025 06:09 PM
Hey @Elusive_fairy
They sound really toxic and immature (can’t believe that 30-year-olds behave like this). I’m glad you’re out of that situation. You deserve so much better. It’s great that you’re able to move on with your life and find better people. Would you do anything to celebrate being free? I’d personally get a big cake. Karma will get them. Cheaters very rarely learn to be better.
16-12-2025 09:27 AM
16-12-2025 09:27 AM
I second the celebration idea!
I had a celebration for the anniversary of the collapse of my toxic relationship, it was incredibly cathartic.
Congratulations @Elusive_fairy , for not having to put up with those ridiculous people anymore. You're free!
Best of luck to you on your journey to healing ❤️
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