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31-07-2016 10:41 AM
31-07-2016 10:41 AM
Screaming out for help
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03-08-2016 09:38 PM
03-08-2016 09:38 PM
Re: Screaming out for help
Hi @BaileyRyan
I'm so sorry to hear what you're going through. You have been really strong in reaching out for help.
I can't imagine how difficult it must be without the support of your partner. I wonder if he's not too sure HOW to help.
Have you been in touch with @PANDA yet? You are never alone - they are a phone call away. You can reach them between 10am - 5pm AEST on 1300 726 306
It's wonderful that you're seeing a psychologist. You're doing all you can to get better - and you should be really proud of yourself for that.
You are definately not the only one going through this - @Nickyb posted about her experiences here a few months ago. I hope in reading this you know that you aren't alone.
Hope to see you posting again soon.
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04-08-2016 05:26 AM
04-08-2016 05:26 AM
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Hello @BaileyRyan It is so hard when you are at the end of your tether. Persist in finding support. I went to the Gray Sisters once in Canterbury Rd Melbourne. I dont know where you live or what services are available. I hope Panda can help. You are not a monster. You are under pressure.
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04-08-2016 07:43 PM
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04-08-2016 08:17 PM
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04-08-2016 09:41 PM
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You are obviously so much under pressure that I can totally understand you flipping out. Take the pressure off yourself. Hire a nanny maybe an option? Someone else who can look after the kids for some days? Parents? Siblings? A friend? Some after school care maybe? Just until you're up with it again and can function. When I'm depressed I have issues feeding my self or my fish! Not to think of children... I think you are very strong and I feel for you. The more stress you experience, the harder it gets. What would your partner do if you end up in hospital for a couple of nights? I thought PND has something to do with hormones? Maybe a test for your hormones could help shedding light before tampering around with anti depressants? Just a thought, I"m not really helping, but anyways, you don't have to take the pills forever. Just until things calmed down a bit. And even if your kids have to have some formula for a while, that will not hurt them as much as an angry mum I think. Don't be hard on yourself. Maybe you can 'prefill' some bottles? I saw some mums doing this and storing them in a huge fridge for later. Maybe there is a home test for your milk? I dunno, just hope you go and get help and have a rest. You really need a rest I think and look after yourself. You're already having suicidal thoughts. I had them before and it's scary. Please go and get some help in your household. I babysitted for a woman with PND. It helped her greatly because she could rest during the day and I would look after the kids. Maybe worth a consideration? It only needs to be for a couple of hours or half a day so you can relax a bit. Allow yourself some time out, your brain needs it. Please take care.
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04-08-2016 10:23 PM
04-08-2016 10:23 PM
Re: Screaming out for help
I've actually found that if I distract myself for the day by getting out of the house, visiting people etc, the day seems to be much better. I don't lose my temper near as much, and I can actually enjoy the time with my girls. Maybe that my key to health? Just to get out more and stop letting my mind get to me when I'm at home.
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16-12-2016 02:20 AM
16-12-2016 02:20 AM
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Hi. I wondered how you were getting on a few months down the track?
Mr is 8 months old today and I don't feel like I'm coping. He isn't even a terrible baby but sometimes I can't stand to be around him. I know my partner tries but I don't feel like he is much help, he works 6 days and when he is around I feel like he's always on the phone or doing odd jobs. All our family and closest friends are interstate. I can't decide if I'm just struggling being a first time Mum or if maybe it is PND?