@Realness
Glad you found tranquility on your weekend away.
I have had a really interesting intense passionate 3 hours of theological and life discussion with my support worker and my son joined us for the last hour. We got on like a house on fire... in a good way. I had not realised that he had been a pastor and preacher for 10 years, and there is lots still in him, but he has moved from his last postion at church and being more private and developing his work as a support worker. It was amazing. So tranquility has its place in spirituality, but also passionate discussion and man to man talk and man to woman talk. I did not know how it would go. I was vulnerable but mildly optimistic, at the start of the shift, but more confident and relieved, that my son and him will get on well. Phew! Grateful. Fancy that. I showed him all my theology books and we just raved and raved and I showed him my sacred music, including singing a tiny bit of Faure in French, cos his his first language was French. It is just the 2nd shift. He is loving his work with us. Oh the ups and downs and flows in life ....
@ENKELI Hugs
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@DownMoreThanUp You wrote "i'm experience my trauma mainly in fight mode and she in flight more. For me emotional intensity, for her emotional deadening the same trauma. She appreciated my comment and promised she think about. " There could be much richness in the healing potential of gradually incorporating these insigths into your relationship. Its huge. Yes I respect Peter Levine. Working through the individuation of each and in relation to each other. All strength to you both.
