18-10-2024 08:36 PM
18-10-2024 08:41 PM
18-10-2024 08:41 PM
@StuF i will try and make it brief. I have a choice between two supported living houses for middle son and they are as different as chalk and cheese. one is a house near bushland large with a beautiful tranquil back yard and some great workers. The other is more modern he will have a better room bigger with ensuite and walk in robe. he will have a nice client to live with and hopefully some caring workers. i dont know what to choose for him. the modern one has shops near by and is a more steady house for the future whereas the bushland house is not.
18-10-2024 08:45 PM
18-10-2024 08:45 PM
How much does he like bushland/outdoors?
I'd choose the modern - ensuites do rock. And on balance I think it is better. But yeah, easy for me to 'choose'!
18-10-2024 08:46 PM
18-10-2024 08:46 PM
@StuF my motherly instincts want to wrap him up in cotton wool so he will be safe but i have to let him go and succeed in life even if that puts him in potentially dangerous situations ....
18-10-2024 08:49 PM
18-10-2024 08:49 PM
@StuF you know what StuF everyone i have asked has said the same thing. he is 31 and needs to live the life of a 31 year old male even with his major disabilities. i have to let him go. Thank you StuF i knew you would say that just needed to hear it.
18-10-2024 08:50 PM
18-10-2024 08:50 PM
18-10-2024 08:51 PM
18-10-2024 08:51 PM
@StuF i do love him very much. Thank you StuFxx
18-10-2024 08:53 PM
18-10-2024 08:54 PM
18-10-2024 08:54 PM
Happy to be of a little service @greenpea lol
Anyway, crashing pretty hard here- eyes are getting more vocal in asking why I'm keeping them open!
Catch you tomorrow?
18-10-2024 08:55 PM
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