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[Fluttershy1]

@NatureLover  She has been in and out my unsafe one...... 

my safe ones are currently with me! 

[NatureLover]

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@Fluttershy1 wrote:

@NatureLover  She has been in and out my unsafe one...... 

my safe ones are currently with me! 

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Oh gosh - it must sure make life interesting, @Fluttershy1  !!

I hope you are OK...

[Fluttershy1]

@NatureLover If I'm to be honest my unsafe one is really pushy and tried to encourage bad behaviour but I don't give into her. I keep to my safe alters. 
I'm just struggling today 

[NatureLover]

Sorry that it's such a struggle, @Fluttershy1 .

Well done for sticking with the safe alters. I wasn't sure how much control you have over them...to block the unsafe alter, I mean...

[Fluttershy1]

@NatureLover  Some days I have no control over her. She will just completely take over some days. But today I have control over her!! 
I'm not letting her win.

[NatureLover]

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@Fluttershy1 wrote:

But today I have control over her!! 
I'm not letting her win.

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Wow! Fantastic 🙂 

@Fluttershy1 

And thank you for explaining...

[Fluttershy1]

@NatureLover anytime. 
some days are harder than others 

[NatureLover]

Sounds like today is a bad one, @Fluttershy1 ... 😞

I hope tomorrow is a better day for you. 

[Fluttershy1]

@NatureLover - hopefully 
*Ava* safe alter 

[outlander]

hi @Fluttershy1
I don't have alters myself so might not be much help but im listening and hearing how hard it is.

@Maggie @Former-Member maybe you guys could offer some advice?